Emma Watson, Emma Watson, Wherefore Art Thou, Emma Watson?
The foxy fauxminist has gone missing in recent years. No movies. No fauxminist outbursts. Not even any trans love tweeted. I...
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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
Nov 17
Progressive Democrats Hate Women More Than The Right. Especially Feminists.
Right-wing misogyny isn't How The Left Was Lost. It was women's, the primary administrators and executors of patriarchy and misogyny. The...
Oct 12
A Frenchwoman Is Dead Serious About Holding ALL Her Rapists Accountable
The Gisele Pelicot case highlights just how frighteningly high is the number of 'normal' men who have a penchant for, and might be...
Sep 14
Let's Have A Grownup Talk About Privilege - With Curiosity Rather Than Outrage
It's real. It's worth exploring even for the UnWoke. Its purpose is to open our own eyes rather than beat up others (and ourselves) over...
Aug 21
A Crazy Cat (Video) Lady Responds To J.D. Vance's 'Sperm Donor' Blindness
Mindless, thoughtless breeding isn't the only way to 'have a stake' in America. And why don't Republicans also damn neglectful, MIA...
Aug 10
Alice Munro Stuck By Her Child Molester, Like So Many Mothers
The disgraced CanLit author collaborated in her own daughter's hell. Because stand by your man and it's always the woman's fault, eh?...
Jul 31
The 'Sheila Agreement': How To Manage Conflict Like Big Girls (And Boys)
An ex-friend pulled a Mean Girl on both myself and another friend, so we devised a way to avoid hurt feelings with better conflict...
Jun 10
Women & Power: Would We Be As Good Running The World As We Think?
Or would we find whole new ways to screw it up? I’ve been on a WKRP in Cincinnati kick lately. A running gag of the late 70s, early 80s...
May 21
Bitch: When I Was The Abuser (Part II)
It takes two for an abusive relationship. Because an abuser can't abuse a person who isn't there. This is Part II. Bitch: When I Was The...
Apr 29
What Both Women & Men Can Learn From The Sordid Andrew Huberman Affair(s)
He was good at playing women, but he offers further lessons on red flag recognition, as well as a helpful lesson for single men who don't...
Apr 6
How I Grew a Pair (Of Labia) And Left An Abusive Marriage: Guest Post Part I
Persephone Phoenix shares how women need to follow their own hero cycle. 'You go through hell and you triumph in the end. No one will...
Feb 24
Here's A Running List Why 'Transwomen' Don't Belong In Women's Spaces
This is for everyone who denies trans-identified males are a threat to women in private spaces. I've found some who are. I’m losing...
Jan 13
Random Stuff Men Say That Make Me Go 'WTF, Feminists?"
#MeToo has trained men to fear women. Why should they? How can men change the conversation? It's time for all of us to speak truth to...
Jan 6
LGBTQ Has A Persistent 'Grooming' Image Problem. Where Does It Come From?
Gay activists brought this on themselves with over-inclusivity. They need to set some boundaries, and NOW. “My husband isn’t behind gay...
Dec 23, 2023
What Do Jews And All Women Have In Common?
The two bodies politic on the left and right have unleashed the dogs of hate on their two least favorite groups It was a feeling of déjà...
Nov 11, 2023
Pat Benatar Was A Better Listen In The '80s Than Whitney Houston
The content we consume normalizes values and beliefs in our brains in ways we don't even know, whether good or bad. Thank Goddess I...
Oct 29, 2023
So What Happens When You Vote And Work For A Known Sexual Predator?
Cassidy Hutchinson learned the hard way. Let’s say Rex Heuermann, the accused in the Long Island Gilgo Beach murders arrested this...
Aug 26, 2023
Abusive Partners And Crazy Stalkers: Where Your Power Lies
Did you know you even have any? And that not all death threats are equal? Or that not all stalkers are serious threats? I don’t know why...
Aug 12, 2023
How To Not Start A Gender War When Some Strange Guy Touches You
Aunt Claire demonstrates how a calm, level-headed woman handled a stranger's caress with the benefit of the doubt It’s just so cute. A...
Jul 15, 2023
How To Handle A Woke Bully
If you're going to act like a woke dickhead, do it somewhere anonymously, not under your real name on Linkedin I forget what the LinkedIn...
Jun 10, 2023
'Don't Call Me Karen' Doesn't Go Over Well At Uber
A diversity specialist challenges the 'strategic ignorance' of those who'd rather not be on the other side of 'uncomfortable...
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