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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
Apr 22, 2022
My First Encounter With Feminist Porn
Porn created by women *for* women had to be light-years better than male-created porn, right? Right? Photo by Arianna Jadé from Pexels...
Apr 19, 2022
Dumb Shit I’ve Done
I didn’t get raped, but I sure made it easy for them Photo by Jody Halsted on Flickr I spend a lot of time thinking about how we can...
Apr 17, 2022
Porn Is Intrinsically Toxic For Men (And Women Too)
But is porn the problem, or *mainstream* porn? What does ‘better’ porn look like? Photo by Jens Karlsson on Flickr CC0 2.0 (and some...
Apr 16, 2022
The Guy’s Guide To Talking To Women
From a non-misandrist & hopefully helpful standpoint Graphic by Jose The Storyteller on Pixabay (quote added) Talking to women is a...
Apr 15, 2022
Amber & Johnny: A Violent Tale With No Innocent Victims
They remind us we need to talk about female Intimate Partner Violence, too - and acknowledge how similar are the dynamics Amber Heard CC...
Apr 8, 2022
When Being Wrong Is Worse Than Being Abused
How much are we willing to tolerate to avoid acknowledging a mistake? Your self-image is the biggest liar of all. Photo by Geralt on...
Apr 5, 2022
How Much Is Genuine Disadvantage Holding You Back?
Are you only holding half the problem accountable? CC0 photo by Kushagra on Pixahive "I’m not allowed to do this. I’m not allowed to feel...
Apr 2, 2022
No More Allowing Angry Misogynists To Set The Rules
A book on dating app culture demonstrates how misogyny persists when women *allow* it. When we don’t tolerate bad men, they disappear. I...
Mar 29, 2022
What If Women Refused To Have Sex With Abusive Men?
Would they die with their bike grip-shaped dick in their hand? My fantasy of what a North American new-members incel convention will look...
Mar 26, 2022
The 5 Best Books For Avoiding Abusive Relationships
Enjoy the abuse-free life I've always enjoyed I hope they're reading Dina McMillan's book. Photo by Oleg Magni from Pexels If there's one...
Mar 17, 2022
"But He Says He Loves Me!": The Women's Abuse Prevention Manual
Dina McMillan's book offers rock-solid advice on how abusive men think and strategize, and how to avoid them Avoiding abuse is easier...
Mar 4, 2022
"She Is Willing To Do Whatever It Takes To Be With Me"
Marilyn Manson's #MeToo moment has arrived, but his victims have nothing new to offer about how women get sucked into these abusive...
Mar 4, 2022
Don’t Be The Victim: Patch Your Brain
Your brain is like a computer network. One attacker can bring down the whole system if he finds your vulnerability first Image by GDJ on...
Feb 23, 2022
The #1 Red Flag Of The Abusive Man
The misogyny backlash is here. The government won't help. It's up to women to avoid violent men. Public domain photo by kalhh on Pixabay...
Feb 4, 2022
Time To Ask Certain Feminists Some Hard Questions
"Why doesn't she leave him?" and "Why does she tolerate such behavior?" are no longer off the table. Image by Chloe Lemieux from Pixabay...
Jan 14, 2022
When Is Rape Culture Totally Hot?
When women write misogynist kink for women. Because, like, pirate rape empowerment or something. Photo by Sophie Dituri on Flickr What if...
Jan 11, 2022
Yes, the Ghislaine Maxwell Witnesses WERE Believed!
The trial was a big win for sexual abuse victims CC0 image from Pixnio It shaped up to be a tough slog for witnesses testifying against...
Jan 8, 2022
Moving Beyond Man-Hating
It's time to confront victim feminism's self-imposed disempowerment. Who's truly holding us back? Photo by Anthony Tran on Unsplash The...
Jan 4, 2022
How Can Men Tell Their Stories And Challenge Toxic Feminism?
Men, I offer my own experience and encourage you: Please, go forth and write! Photo by Andres Ayrton from Pexels Everyone’s tribe is...
Dec 24, 2021
I Want To Be Nancy Pelosi When I Grow Up
Pelosi 'doesn't do fear' and embodies toxic masculinity's worst nightmares about female power U.S. Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi:...
Dec 10, 2021
How Do Women Enable Rape, Trafficking & Sexual Abuse?
Men may be the consumers and drivers, but women's silence, or turning away, is complicit CC0 Public domain photo from Pxhere It makes my...
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