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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
Sep 29, 2022
Did You Ever Ruin Someone’s Life?
Like Brett Kavanaugh did? And you just didn’t know it? I recently sent an apology to someone for nasty shit I did forty years ago. Better...
Sep 11, 2022
The Two Women Marilyn Manson *Didn't* Abuse
Why not? Photo by Andreas Lawen, Fotandi on Wikimedia Commons Why do ex-wife Dita Von Teese and ex-fiancee Rose McGowan maintain they...
Aug 6, 2022
This Is What Zero Tolerance For Abuse Looks Like
Squash negative demands and action, however minor, fast. Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay Honestly, it really wasn't a big deal. I knew...
Jul 23, 2022
It's Time To Reckon With The Left's War On Women
The Republic of Gilead's threat isn't only from the right. The 'woke' left hates women every bit as much. It's a War On Women no matter...
Jun 21, 2022
Punish Boys, Not Girls, For Misogyny
Uvalde shooter Salvador Ramos threatened teen girls but they didn't report him to the police. Why? Image by Kerttu Northman from Pixabay...
Jun 12, 2022
What We Can Learn From Nicole Brown Simpson’s Bad Choices
One of O.J.’s wives didn’t tolerate abuse. The other did. On the 28th anniversary of the world's most famous domestic homicide, let's...
May 13, 2022
What Abuse Victims Can Learn From Prison Groupies
Women who love monsters are merely the extremest of the Bad Boy lovers Richard Ramirez with one of his many sweeties. Photo by Mario...
May 12, 2022
What If Human Women Challenged Male Aggression Like Bonobos?
The end of male aggression lies with us, not men. We can learn from our matriarchal cousins. CC0 2.0 photo by LaggedOnUser on Wikimedia...
May 10, 2022
Who Cares What Others Think About Your Looks?
Why do women care? What could we accomplish if we didn’t? “Do I look old? I don’t really look old, do I?” Photo by debra123 on Needpix I...
May 7, 2022
Why I Don’t Fight For Your Tribe Or My Own
Systemic discrimination isn’t just to your disadvantage. It’s to mine too. CC0 2.0 photo by InvestmentZen on Flickr I’ll admit: I don’t...
May 5, 2022
I Think I Was Groomed For Abuse Once
But only once. Not sure what he saw in me. Surely not victimhood… Photo by Charles C. Collingwood on Unsplash He did a double take as he...
May 5, 2022
If It’s That Hard To Be A Woman, You’re Doing It Wrong
Life is hard for men too. Deal with it. Image from Claudio_Scott on Pixabay North American women do love to complain. It’s a privilege...
May 2, 2022
The First Guy To Hit Me Was The Last
And here’s why it never happened again Photo by ramzi hashisho from FreeImages (cropped) “Ugly dog!” I heard that a lot my last two years...
Apr 30, 2022
Mama Didn’t Raise No Victim Feminist
Don’t blame the victim? Don’t BE the victim Photo by Sarah Cervantes on Unsplash Blame my anti-feminist mother for my belief that women...
Apr 29, 2022
Are You Too Tolerant Of Abuse?
Have you got the labia to challenge your friends’ choices? Photo by Philipp Wüthrich on Unsplash She was so damned cute, reddish-brown...
Apr 28, 2022
Power Lessons For Today's SJWs From Nelson Mandela
The captain of his own soul urges victims to liberate themselves first, and never stop fighting Creative Commons 4.0 image from South...
Apr 19, 2022
Dumb Shit I’ve Done
I didn’t get raped, but I sure made it easy for them Photo by Jody Halsted on Flickr I spend a lot of time thinking about how we can...
Apr 17, 2022
Porn Is Intrinsically Toxic For Men (And Women Too)
But is porn the problem, or *mainstream* porn? What does ‘better’ porn look like? Photo by Jens Karlsson on Flickr CC0 2.0 (and some...
Apr 15, 2022
Amber & Johnny: A Violent Tale With No Innocent Victims
They remind us we need to talk about female Intimate Partner Violence, too - and acknowledge how similar are the dynamics Amber Heard CC...
Apr 13, 2022
Book Review: Real Help by Ayodeji Awosika
Ayo starts by surgically removing your excuses for why you can't move your life forward I love the nerdy Bill Gates shirt. Photo from...
Apr 8, 2022
When Being Wrong Is Worse Than Being Abused
How much are we willing to tolerate to avoid acknowledging a mistake? Your self-image is the biggest liar of all. Photo by Geralt on...
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