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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!


Mar 17, 2022
"But He Says He Loves Me!": The Women's Abuse Prevention Manual
Dina McMillan's book offers rock-solid advice on how abusive men think and strategize, and how to avoid them Avoiding abuse is easier...


Mar 4, 2022
"She Is Willing To Do Whatever It Takes To Be With Me"
Marilyn Manson's #MeToo moment has arrived, but his victims have nothing new to offer about how women get sucked into these abusive...

Mar 4, 2022
Don’t Be The Victim: Patch Your Brain
Your brain is like a computer network. One attacker can bring down the whole system if he finds your vulnerability first Image by GDJ on...


Feb 23, 2022
The #1 Red Flag Of The Abusive Man
The misogyny backlash is here. The government won't help. It's up to women to avoid violent men. Public domain photo by kalhh on Pixabay...


Feb 4, 2022
Time To Ask Certain Feminists Some Hard Questions
"Why doesn't she leave him?" and "Why does she tolerate such behavior?" are no longer off the table. Image by Chloe Lemieux from Pixabay...


Jan 8, 2022
Moving Beyond Man-Hating
It's time to confront victim feminism's self-imposed disempowerment. Who's truly holding us back? Photo by Anthony Tran on Unsplash The...


Jan 4, 2022
How Can Men Tell Their Stories And Challenge Toxic Feminism?
Men, I offer my own experience and encourage you: Please, go forth and write! Photo by Andres Ayrton from Pexels Everyone’s tribe is...


Dec 3, 2021
Rapists Who Get Off Easy Don't Get Off Scot-Free
Even when they're acquitted they get punished Image by Snap_It on Pixabay It's a worse outrage than the Brock Turner verdict three years...


Aug 4, 2021
Which Kind of Narcissist Are You?
Because guess what, we’re *all* narcissists! Seriously. “Are you a good narcissist, or a bad narcissist?” Creative Commons 2.0 image by...


Jan 7, 2021
Ladies, We’re Running Out Of Excuses For Tolerating Abuse
FKA Twigs’s story demonstrates the uselessness of #MeToo if we refuse to learn from it, and act more intelligently By Bobo Boom on...


Jan 5, 2021
Don't Be A Victim, And Don't Take No Shit’
’80s feminist power icon Pat Benatar fought real misogyny but never whined Neil Giraldo and Pat Benatar in 2009 by Terwilliger911 on...


Nov 16, 2020
Why Are Some Women Still So Afraid Of Personal Power?
It’s time to stop asking for it nicely. Just seize it, dammit. And stop voting for The Patriarchy. Photo by Caleb Woods on Unsplash I...


Oct 8, 2020
When Feminism Came To The Buddha
Never doubt the power of determined women Free photo from PxFuel The Buddha was silent for a long moment before he said, “It is not...


Oct 7, 2020
Let’s Start Over With Men’s Rights
Roy Den Hollander shows just how utterly silly and irrelevant ‘men’s rights’ has always been. The movement needs a reboot. Graphic by...


Oct 7, 2020
Why I Don’t Always Believe Racial ‘Microaggression’ Stories
Because, feminism. And because I’m not going to eat you no matter what happens. Public domain photo from Pikrepo I have something in...


Oct 4, 2020
Child Abuse: Where Abusers & Victims Learn Their Craft
Why do we still not understand this? Free for commercial use photo from PxFuel I haven’t wanted children since I first gave it serious...


Oct 3, 2020
My Mother Taught Me Never To Tolerate Abuse
And you don't have to, either. Mother teaching daughter how to sit in yoga butterfly pose — depositphotos.com "Did you ever notice it’s...


Oct 3, 2020
Confronting Our Inner Dinosaur
Why do personally strong women refuse to challenge the outdated feminist narratives in their head? Confronting our inner dinosaur. Image...
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