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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
Oct 12, 2022
When You ‘Tell Your Truth’ How Much Of It Is True?
Your story may be true but your opinions, selective omission and creative mindreading need a fact check When she's telling you something...
Sep 11, 2022
The Two Women Marilyn Manson *Didn't* Abuse
Why not? Photo by Andreas Lawen, Fotandi on Wikimedia Commons Why do ex-wife Dita Von Teese and ex-fiancee Rose McGowan maintain they...
Aug 14, 2022
'Private' Domestic Violence Is Now Everyone's Business
Mass shooter normalization demonstrates domestic abusers are no longer just a threat to their families Public domain photo from Rawpixel...
Aug 6, 2022
This Is What Zero Tolerance For Abuse Looks Like
Squash negative demands and action, however minor, fast. Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay Honestly, it really wasn't a big deal. I knew...
Jun 21, 2022
Punish Boys, Not Girls, For Misogyny
Uvalde shooter Salvador Ramos threatened teen girls but they didn't report him to the police. Why? Image by Kerttu Northman from Pixabay...
Jun 12, 2022
What We Can Learn From Nicole Brown Simpson’s Bad Choices
One of O.J.’s wives didn’t tolerate abuse. The other did. On the 28th anniversary of the world's most famous domestic homicide, let's...
May 13, 2022
What Abuse Victims Can Learn From Prison Groupies
Women who love monsters are merely the extremest of the Bad Boy lovers Richard Ramirez with one of his many sweeties. Photo by Mario...
May 12, 2022
What If Human Women Challenged Male Aggression Like Bonobos?
The end of male aggression lies with us, not men. We can learn from our matriarchal cousins. CC0 2.0 photo by LaggedOnUser on Wikimedia...
May 5, 2022
I Think I Was Groomed For Abuse Once
But only once. Not sure what he saw in me. Surely not victimhood… Photo by Charles C. Collingwood on Unsplash He did a double take as he...
May 2, 2022
The First Guy To Hit Me Was The Last
And here’s why it never happened again Photo by ramzi hashisho from FreeImages (cropped) “Ugly dog!” I heard that a lot my last two years...
Apr 30, 2022
Mama Didn’t Raise No Victim Feminist
Don’t blame the victim? Don’t BE the victim Photo by Sarah Cervantes on Unsplash Blame my anti-feminist mother for my belief that women...
Apr 29, 2022
Are You Too Tolerant Of Abuse?
Have you got the labia to challenge your friends’ choices? Photo by Philipp Wüthrich on Unsplash She was so damned cute, reddish-brown...
Apr 19, 2022
Dumb Shit I’ve Done
I didn’t get raped, but I sure made it easy for them Photo by Jody Halsted on Flickr I spend a lot of time thinking about how we can...
Apr 17, 2022
Porn Is Intrinsically Toxic For Men (And Women Too)
But is porn the problem, or *mainstream* porn? What does ‘better’ porn look like? Photo by Jens Karlsson on Flickr CC0 2.0 (and some...
Apr 2, 2022
No More Allowing Angry Misogynists To Set The Rules
A book on dating app culture demonstrates how misogyny persists when women *allow* it. When we don’t tolerate bad men, they disappear. I...
Mar 29, 2022
What If Women Refused To Have Sex With Abusive Men?
Would they die with their bike grip-shaped dick in their hand? My fantasy of what a North American new-members incel convention will look...
Mar 26, 2022
The 5 Best Books For Avoiding Abusive Relationships
Enjoy the abuse-free life I've always enjoyed I hope they're reading Dina McMillan's book. Photo by Oleg Magni from Pexels If there's one...
Mar 17, 2022
"But He Says He Loves Me!": The Women's Abuse Prevention Manual
Dina McMillan's book offers rock-solid advice on how abusive men think and strategize, and how to avoid them Avoiding abuse is easier...
Mar 4, 2022
"She Is Willing To Do Whatever It Takes To Be With Me"
Marilyn Manson's #MeToo moment has arrived, but his victims have nothing new to offer about how women get sucked into these abusive...
Mar 4, 2022
Don’t Be The Victim: Patch Your Brain
Your brain is like a computer network. One attacker can bring down the whole system if he finds your vulnerability first Image by GDJ on...
Feb 23, 2022
The #1 Red Flag Of The Abusive Man
The misogyny backlash is here. The government won't help. It's up to women to avoid violent men. Public domain photo by kalhh on Pixabay...
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