Did You Ever Ruin Someone’s Life?
Like Brett Kavanaugh did? And you just didn’t know it? I recently sent an apology to someone for nasty shit I did forty years ago. Better...
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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
Aug 6, 2022
This Is What Zero Tolerance For Abuse Looks Like
Squash negative demands and action, however minor, fast. Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay Honestly, it really wasn't a big deal. I knew...
Jun 29, 2022
We Accept Transgenderism. Are We Ready For Transracialism?
It's coming, whether you like it or not. Biology appropriation will breach the next taboo. Embrace it! Rachel Dolezal is still black, in...
Jun 12, 2022
What We Can Learn From Nicole Brown Simpson’s Bad Choices
One of O.J.’s wives didn’t tolerate abuse. The other did. On the 28th anniversary of the world's most famous domestic homicide, let's...
May 10, 2022
Who Cares What Others Think About Your Looks?
Why do women care? What could we accomplish if we didn’t? “Do I look old? I don’t really look old, do I?” Photo by debra123 on Needpix I...
Apr 30, 2022
Mama Didn’t Raise No Victim Feminist
Don’t blame the victim? Don’t BE the victim Photo by Sarah Cervantes on Unsplash Blame my anti-feminist mother for my belief that women...
Apr 16, 2022
The Guy’s Guide To Talking To Women
From a non-misandrist & hopefully helpful standpoint Graphic by Jose The Storyteller on Pixabay (quote added) Talking to women is a...
Apr 8, 2022
When Being Wrong Is Worse Than Being Abused
How much are we willing to tolerate to avoid acknowledging a mistake? Your self-image is the biggest liar of all. Photo by Geralt on...
Apr 5, 2022
How Much Is Genuine Disadvantage Holding You Back?
Are you only holding half the problem accountable? CC0 photo by Kushagra on Pixahive "I’m not allowed to do this. I’m not allowed to feel...
Apr 2, 2022
No More Allowing Angry Misogynists To Set The Rules
A book on dating app culture demonstrates how misogyny persists when women *allow* it. When we don’t tolerate bad men, they disappear. I...
Mar 17, 2022
"But He Says He Loves Me!": The Women's Abuse Prevention Manual
Dina McMillan's book offers rock-solid advice on how abusive men think and strategize, and how to avoid them Avoiding abuse is easier...
Mar 4, 2022
Don’t Be The Victim: Patch Your Brain
Your brain is like a computer network. One attacker can bring down the whole system if he finds your vulnerability first Image by GDJ on...
Feb 27, 2022
The Sexbots For Men Are Coming. What About Lovebots For Women?
With emotional AI, we won't need you either, boys. But will it solve our problems, or make us more miserable? He's everything you always...
Feb 23, 2022
The #1 Red Flag Of The Abusive Man
The misogyny backlash is here. The government won't help. It's up to women to avoid violent men. Public domain photo by kalhh on Pixabay...
Jan 8, 2022
Moving Beyond Man-Hating
It's time to confront victim feminism's self-imposed disempowerment. Who's truly holding us back? Photo by Anthony Tran on Unsplash The...
Dec 24, 2021
I Want To Be Nancy Pelosi When I Grow Up
Pelosi 'doesn't do fear' and embodies toxic masculinity's worst nightmares about female power U.S. Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi:...
Aug 22, 2021
I Was A Feminist Belly Dancing Tool Of ‘The Patriarchy’
And I enjoyed every damn minute of it. No apologies. Photo from PxFuel I blasted Celestria with my finest feminist...
Aug 4, 2021
Which Kind of Narcissist Are You?
Because guess what, we’re *all* narcissists! Seriously. “Are you a good narcissist, or a bad narcissist?” Creative Commons 2.0 image by...
Apr 16, 2021
You Know What? All Those Everyone Look Alike To Me
Even white people. Especially white people! Okay, I took the easy route and chose a picture of the Dionne Quintuplets (1952). But really,...
Jan 5, 2021
Don't Be A Victim, And Don't Take No Shit’
’80s feminist power icon Pat Benatar fought real misogyny but never whined Neil Giraldo and Pat Benatar in 2009 by Terwilliger911 on...
Nov 16, 2020
Why Are Some Women Still So Afraid Of Personal Power?
It’s time to stop asking for it nicely. Just seize it, dammit. And stop voting for The Patriarchy. Photo by Caleb Woods on Unsplash I...
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