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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
If Female Circumcision Is Wrong, Why Not Male?
It's BARBARIC. And puritanical. It legitimizes 'trans' genital surgery today. We need a moratorium on child genital mutilation, period....
Aug 1, 2024
Bitch: When I Was The Abuser (Part II)
It takes two for an abusive relationship. Because an abuser can't abuse a person who isn't there. This is Part II. Bitch: When I Was The...
May 21, 2024
Bitch: When I Was The Abuser (Part I)
When I say, 'Don't LET anyone treat you like that,' or 'Don't BE the victim,' I speak from personal experience. As a temporary ex-abuser....
May 18, 2024
Oh Geez, Another Pointless Anti-Domestic Violence Drive
In order to reduce domestic violence, one must first recognize and challenge the source, and those who agree to it. The latest campaign...
Dec 16, 2023
Pat Benatar Was A Better Listen In The '80s Than Whitney Houston
The content we consume normalizes values and beliefs in our brains in ways we don't even know, whether good or bad. Thank Goddess I...
Nov 11, 2023
Abusive Partners And Crazy Stalkers: Where Your Power Lies
Did you know you even have any? And that not all death threats are equal? Or that not all stalkers are serious threats? I don’t know why...
Aug 26, 2023
What Can We Learn From This Woman's Abusive Relationship?
The red flags were everywhere. 'Maria' has no idea where she made mistakes, and no one will tell her. The truth hurts too much....
Apr 29, 2023
This Is What Zero Tolerance For Abuse Looks Like
Squash negative demands and action, however minor, fast. Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay Honestly, it really wasn't a big deal. I knew...
Aug 6, 2022
What Abuse Victims Can Learn From Prison Groupies
Women who love monsters are merely the extremest of the Bad Boy lovers Richard Ramirez with one of his many sweeties. Photo by Mario...
May 13, 2022
The First Guy To Hit Me Was The Last
And here’s why it never happened again Photo by ramzi hashisho from FreeImages (cropped) “Ugly dog!” I heard that a lot my last two years...
May 2, 2022
Mama Didn’t Raise No Victim Feminist
Don’t blame the victim? Don’t BE the victim Photo by Sarah Cervantes on Unsplash Blame my anti-feminist mother for my belief that women...
Apr 30, 2022
Are You Too Tolerant Of Abuse?
Have you got the labia to challenge your friends’ choices? Photo by Philipp Wüthrich on Unsplash She was so damned cute, reddish-brown...
Apr 29, 2022
Amber & Johnny: A Violent Tale With No Innocent Victims
They remind us we need to talk about female Intimate Partner Violence, too - and acknowledge how similar are the dynamics Amber Heard CC...
Apr 15, 2022
When Being Wrong Is Worse Than Being Abused
How much are we willing to tolerate to avoid acknowledging a mistake? Your self-image is the biggest liar of all. Photo by Geralt on...
Apr 8, 2022
What If Women Refused To Have Sex With Abusive Men?
Would they die with their bike grip-shaped dick in their hand? My fantasy of what a North American new-members incel convention will look...
Mar 29, 2022
The 5 Best Books For Avoiding Abusive Relationships
Enjoy the abuse-free life I've always enjoyed I hope they're reading Dina McMillan's book. Photo by Oleg Magni from Pexels If there's one...
Mar 26, 2022
Do You Have A Thing For Abusers?
My friend did. She couldn’t see the red flags Photo by Jesús Boscán on Unsplash I used to go clubbing back in the day with a woman who...
Feb 21, 2022
Time To Ask Certain Feminists Some Hard Questions
"Why doesn't she leave him?" and "Why does she tolerate such behavior?" are no longer off the table. Image by Chloe Lemieux from Pixabay...
Feb 4, 2022
How Can Men Tell Their Stories And Challenge Toxic Feminism?
Men, I offer my own experience and encourage you: Please, go forth and write! Photo by Andres Ayrton from Pexels Everyone’s tribe is...
Jan 4, 2022
The Girl’s Guide To Avoiding Abusers
What your mother may not have told you, because she didn’t know herself Photo by Ali Tareq on Unsplash Within weeks of moving to Toronto...
Dec 4, 2021
How Can Women Choke The Life Out Of Dating App Misogyny?
Nancy Jo Sales’s book on addictive, toxic mobile apps reveals how women still cater to men and blame it all on ‘misogyny’ Photo by Mad...
Nov 13, 2021
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